Sexuality 101

Sexuality is not always black and white. You might like the same gender, different genders, both, neither or you might not be sure right now. That’s okay! It’s important to understand that feeling something for a member of the same gender doesn’t mean you immediately need to label yourself. There are lots of different words used to describe sexuality.

At RainbowYOUTH we use ‘queer’ as an umbrella term for an extremely varied range of identities, including culturally specific ones. We use it acknowledging that it includes identities such as: takatāpui, lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, asexual, aromantic, demisexual, polysexual and questioning people. We also acknowledge that this term might not work for everyone.

Helpful resources:

Groups

The I’m Local Project (NZ)
The I’m Local Project aims to help queer & gender diverse youth all over Aotearoa to feel valued, recognised and supported in their local communities by providing free, identity affirming resources.

General Info

Inside Out (NZ)
A friendly and accessible learning resource to help increase understanding and support of sex, gender and sexuality diversity, so we can all belong.

Takatāpui: Part of the Whānau (NZ)
Learn the history of the term 'takatāpui' as well as the key elements that make up takatāpui identity. This resource is for takatapui, their whānau and communities, and shares stories and information about identity, wellbeing and suicide prevention.

More Than Four (NZ)
More Than Four is a new video and poster resource from InsideOUT, exploring the identities and experiences of and beyond ‘LGBT’ identities.

Sexuality (The REAL Sex Talk) (NZ)
Sometimes girls like girls and boys like boys, and that’s okay. Sometimes people like people and gender doesn't come into it. And sometimes people don't feel sexual attraction to anyone. And that's sweet as.

Miscellaneous (NZ)
This is a blog about mental health, social justice, and sharing resources related to the health and wellbeing of people with diverse sexes, genders, and sexualities.

All Bi Myself (BANG! Podcast Episode) (NZ)
In this episode, people who are “attracted to more than one gender” share their experiences, and Dr Nikki Hayfield highlights some particularly damaging, often “biphobic”, stereotypes. 

An Intro to Sexuality And Gender (AUS)
Our identity is made up of a HEAP of different traits that are personal to us. Things like our sexuality, culture, religion, gender, our age, our body, and a stack more. The great thing about our identity is that it’s ours to decide. No one else can tell you how to identify, because it’s who you are.

Friends & Whānau

Growing Up Takatāpui: Whānau Journeys (NZ)
Interviews with seven takatāpui rangatahi and their whānau inform this resource about the journey to and the importance of whānau support in a takatāpui young person's life.

Healthy Relationships

You, Me, Us (NZ)
You, Me, Us is all about us, as queer, trans* and takatāpui people, having healthy relationships with each other, and what we can do when things go wrong.

Healthcare & Wellbeing

Out Loud Aotearoa (NZ)
The aim of this project was to use art to share the stories and wishes of the queer, gender diverse, intersex, takatāpui, MVPFAFF or rainbow communities around Aotearoa’s mental health and addiction services with the intention of compiling them into a submission to the Government Inquiry into Mental Health and Addiction.

Same or Both-Sex Attracted Young People in Aotearoa/New Zealand (NZ)
A fact sheet covering relevant statistics related to same and both-sex attracted young people drawn from data collected in the Youth'12 Study

School

Guide to Supporting LGBTIQA+ Students - Ministry of Education (NZ)
A guide for schools about best practice when supporting queer, gender diverse and intersex young people. Includes a helpful resource bank and tips for designing inclusive school policies

Seeking Asylum

Rainbow Railroad (CAN)
A Canadian-based organisation that helps queer, intersex and gender diverse folks experiencing state-sponsored violence to seek asylum in safer countries.